Proverbs 22:24
The seasons of the year change naturally without any assistance from us. But there is another kind of change that is wholly dependent on our choices and actions: changes in relationships. Sometimes we can tell when a change is needed -- for positive or negative reasons.
For instance, Proverbs 22:24 warns against becoming friends with an angry person. Why? Because "an angry man stirs up strife, and a furious man abounds in transgression" (Proverbs 29:22). So the chances of becoming involved in strife and sin are multiplied when we form a friendship with an angry person. On the positive side, Paul writes that we should "associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion" (Romans 12:16). In short, just as iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17), so people have a telling influence on each other -- for good or for ill. Paul also warned about the dangers of believers becoming partners with nonbelievers, whether in business, marriage, or other intimate relationships (2 Corinthians 6:14-18).
Ask God to show you any changes you need to make in your relationships. And make sure your closest relationship continues to be with Jesus Himself.
Friendship is the marriage of affections.
Thomas Watson
